5 Reasons Making Eye Contact In Bed Is The Secret To A Banging Sex Life
When it comes to sex, we never want to feel we’re having the substandard kind. Because that hurts our ego! All of us want to believe that we’re the best sex or the best kiss he’s ever had. While at it, we assume that we look like Jack and Rose getting it on, except what we really look like could scar some retinas. But the ego needs fanning, so be it. Point is, that we want our sex lives to be spectacular and even if it’s quite good currently, there’s always room for improvement. We read up so much on moves and positions that will enhance our sexual experience. We invest in expensive lingerie and even try out role-play. But we tend to see right through that one thing which can actually make a hell lot of difference. Eye contact! It’s as simple as that. When you’re flirting with someone at the bar, you make eye contact so why do we shut our eyes in bed? Take your sexual chemistry to the next level with this simple move. Here’s how it really helps.
It deepens your connection
They say your eyes are a window to your soul. Look into each other’s eyes and you will probably feel like you’ve spoken without words and your connection will feel quite strong.
It’s bold and that’s arousing
Imagine you’re going down on him and once in a while, you look up and make eye contact. At this point, he feels vulnerable and exposed, but in a good way. It shows you’re bold and confident and that’s a turn on for most guys. In fact, when you’re in the moment, unflinching and sexy, it turns you on too!
You feel more comfortable
You know what they say about people who don’t look you into the eye. When you maintain eye contact, you’re accustomed to take it as a sign of trust. And that eases you in, causing you to let your guard down. It builds true intimacy and you can feel the barriers crashing, with every sex sesh. Do you know what that means? You can relax and feel roof-breaking orgasms!
You can gauge what turns him on
While you can direct each other to what’s working the best, overdoing it can feel like you’re having sex with a YouTube tutorial. Just looking at each other can help you figure what moves are making him go crazy. Should you maintain the pace? The answer lies in his eyes.
It intensifies the effects of oxytocin
Oxytocin is known as the “love” hormone which forms the basis of human bonds. When we have sex, this hormone is released which makes us feel closer to bae. But did you know that eye contact can actually give you a boost of oxytocin? So more eye contact, more love and more sex! If you ask me, that’s a win-win situation.