7 Genius Ways To Feel More Confident About Your Body During Sex

Imagine you are right in the middle of a hot, sweaty sex sesh and then catch yourself in the mirror. That can bring all the sexiness, crashing down in an instant. Yes, you’ve heard it before, it’s all in the head, you should be confident and all that but hey, it wouldn’t hurt to look model-esque. We’re at our confident best while out on a date. He looks at you intensely and you laugh at his jokes (yes, even the bad ones), while casually brushing your fingers against his arms. You feel sexy and enamoured but the moment your skater dress (that’s strategically hiding your tummy) is stripped off, you get awkward. Many fumbling kisses later (if you don’t know what to do with your hands, we have a guide here!), when it’s time to get into the deed, instead of taking in the pleasure, you now are thinking of your thighs.  Instead of letting the anxiety supersede your pleasure, try out these tricks to look sexy in bed.

Turn off the overhead lights

Lights directly above your head are harsh and can be extremely unflattering. It’s not like he’s going to notice your cellulite and pores, but it wouldn’t hurt to feel like a goddess. Soften the lights, drawing attention to your breasts and lips and feel your confidence grow.

Lie on your side

Lying down on your side will slim your waist, show off your curves and give him something insane to gawk at. The tummy is a problem area for most of us, so being on your side works to your advantage. In fact, this position accentuates your curves and makes your breasts and hips look perkier.

Keep your arms over your head

While we know that the best way to deal with tummy fat is to make it go away, it’s easier said than done. Which is why, this is the best bedroom trick to keep in mind. In the missionary position, keep your arms over your head. It will tighten your stomach and pull the attention on your breasts. He will get so hot, the only extra inches will be his!

Put on an accessory

Direct his attention to your assets by wearing the right accessories. Wear a pair of danglers to elongate your face. If you have lovely boobs (all of them are!), wear a minimalist neckpiece to accentuate your cleavage. The safest bet, however, would be a pair of stilettos, because like what screams domination like them?

Try doggy style/flatiron sex position

In both the positions, your back is towards him. This will hide your tummy fat and also tighten other problem areas like arms and thighs.

Smell good

We scrub ourselves and shave our legs before getting in bed with them. But the significance of smelling good is often underplayed. A nice perfume can further turn him on, so dab some strategically on your neck, cleavage, shoulders and wrists.

Wear a sexy cover-up

A cover-up can hide your problem areas, while making you look super sexy (round 2 guaranteed!) A skater-style teddy lingerie skimming the upper thighs will flatter your body. Or simply slip into a white satin bedsheet (if you’re that fancy).

Most importantly, we need to feel poised and love every inch of our body to look sexy in bed. Nothing is sexier than confidence!