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What Happens To Your Sex Life After You Have A Baby? Let’s Talk A Tit Bit About That.

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If you go by what society says, then marriage is a compulsion, and then obviously having children within a given time frame is also non-negotiable. But I have always thought of both of those concepts as options. Maybe I don’t want to get married or have kids, maybe I want to find a decent man and have a live-in relationship. Bottom line is, that I don’t know what I want (probably because I am 23 and can barely take care of myself) but when I do decide, it will be an option that I want to pursue not just an act of conformity.

However,  there are so many women out there who are absolutely acing in both the departments. My mother, for example, she has married to my father for about 30 years now. She had a child (the best one, me) and a flourishing career. And let me say this, if I do go down the same road, she would one hundred percent be my role model.

Now obviously life changes after you get married and more so after you have a baby. From what I understand, the baby takes precedence over everything in your life. You’ve lost track of your sleep schedule and I have always felt like having a baby really messes up your body. Yeah, its beautiful thing giving birth but what about all the pain, the hormonal changes and the fact that your breasts have now become someone’s dinner? Yeah okay, maybe I should not make fun of breastfeeding but you get my point.

Also, I have always wondered what happens to your sex life after you have a child? Okay, don’t judge me I am not some weirdo but even you have to agree it’s an important factor to consider. I mean, these are decisions that you can’t turn your back on (you can but it’s not easy to).

We all need clarity about things like these and who better to ask than women who have been there and done that (not literally). So, as part of our weekly podcasts, we spoke to some kick-ass moms about having babies and sex after you’ve had a baby and they gave us some amazing insight. PS: there is nothing to be embarrassed about. Just listen to the podcast and you’ll know.

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Most of these moms agreed that having sex after you’ve had a child is like starting all over again. They say that sometimes it hurts but eventually it gets much better. One of them also said that it took her 6 months to get back to it since she hated her body then and someone else that it took her a year to get back in the game. Another person said that it is extremely satisfying but also exhausting because your body is changing.

We also asked them what happens to the body after you give birth to a child. Someone said that boobs are no longer a sexual thing since you are feeding the child 8 times a day. Another person said that it’s a beautiful experience, but it will ruin your vagina forever.

Okay, I am not telling you all this to scare you. But it is vital that you tune into the podcast to make an informed decision. And if you are already married and have a child, then you will certainly be able to relate.

We Have To Adapt Our Relationships To This Quarantine. Let’s Talk A Tit Bit About That

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