5 Little Things That Can Take Your Foreplay From Nice To OMFG!
When you think about foreplay, what comes in your head? Most of us think about the basics – like kissing, fondling and maybe oral sex. So we invest our energies in perfecting our kissing techniques, he gets his breast-play game on and you research on ways you can stimulate him. But if foreplay was all about these things, wouldn’t it get very mechanical? There’s a huge difference between sex that’s methodical and that gives you butterflies even when you think of it later. And there are these little things you do during foreplay that makes all the difference. Here you go!
1) He picks you/you sit on his lap
I really can’t point out the reason, but a lot of women have told me they just love being lifted. Even if it’s just for 30 seconds, it feels so passionate that you’re turned on almost immediately. Now if he isn’t able to lift you, sitting on his lap and talking and kissing can make everything seem magical.
2) Make out in lotus position
The reason that I love this position so much is that you’re not just facing each other but you can also hug each other very tightly. It brings in feelings of closeness and intimacy, which quite obviously, enhances your foreplay. To get in this position, let your partner sit with legs crossed or stretched out. Then, you sit on his lap facing towards him and with your legs wrapped around him. He can stimulate your breasts in this position and kiss you wildly.
3) Cuddling your way to round two
Cuddles are really underrated! They are not just a warm end to a great sex sesh but can very well be the start of another. You can opt for vanilla cuddles and simply end the night with some sleep. But life’s too short for an average sex life. So stay up, snuggling and kissing endlessly. And then there you are moving towards round two and with that, another set of explosive orgasms!
4) Sighs and moans
A lot of women are very quiet in bed because we’ve grown up in a society that doesn’t encourage us to express our sexual desires openly. So conditioned to be silent about our pleasures, we get awkward when it comes to sighs and moans. But let me tell you, it’s really not over-hyped! This helps your partner exactly understand what makes you feel good and this kinda communication is important if you want your orgasms.
5) Physical playfulness like tickling etc
Foreplay doesn’t have to be serious and strictly sensual. A little mischievousness and laughter can take the pressure off and help you relax. Witty banter, tickling and a cute-sy pillow fight will give you an adrenaline rush, which is good to get you warmed up right before sex. Also, when you’re at ease, you perform better and come better!